I was recently introduced to Hayley Watkins by Jody Day, founder of Gateway Women (gateway-women.com).  Haley and I had a heartfelt discussion about childlessness and grandchildlessness via a virtual meeting. Hayley is a certified counsellor who runs a discussion group via Zoom, the Cactus Childfree Discussion Group, for anyone who is childfree, childless, or undecided (often called "fence-sitters").  Please note that this discussion group is run from the UK, on the first Wednesday of every month at 7pm (London time). You can join by emailing Hayley at hello@cactuscounselling.co.uk and asking to be added to the email reminder list. You may be interested in the perspective here if your adult child has made the decision to be childless.